Who's afraid of the big bad wolf?

by Leigh K Cunningham
in On Writing and Publishing
8 Dec 2009 | 18 Comments

I have been pleasantly surprised by the number of adults who have now read The Glass Table. One adult reader wrote to ask if I thought child readers might be disturbed by the fact that one of the characters, Faith, turns into a mass of bubbles and floats away on the river Kai, and I can say with certainty that I do not think so. It is a topical subject though—content and themes in children's fiction—and even more so since the movie releases of Where the Wild Things Are and A Christmas Carol.

In Where the Wild Things Are, 9-year-old Max is in constant danger: older boys collapse his igloo while he is inside; a monster nearly knocks him off a cliff; he barely escapes falling trees, flailing claws, and dirt clods; and the manic wild things want to hug him one minute then eat him the next. It's a lot for a young boy to manage and resolve, and the question arises—is it too much? Andrew Romano at NEWSWEEK says not.

According to Romano, "The greatest children's stories are about what happens when we become untethered from authority, whether by disobedience, disaster, or disregard, and the twinned feelings of freedom and fear we experience as we grapple with an autonomy we're not quite ready for. They are, in that sense, rehearsals for adulthood."

Maurice Sendak, the author of Where the Wild Things Are, says, "[Max] doesn't know what's to come next ... that's gotta be scary for a kid, but it's also gotta be what a kid likes most. It's that enticement of what might or might not happen."

The views of Romano and Sendak are supported by science. According to a recent article in the journal of Psychological Science, experiences that perplex or amaze "prime the brain to sense patterns it would otherwise miss—in mathematical equations, in language, in the world at large." So movies and literature that replicate the confusion of being a child can actually help children to navigate their way through childhood and beyond.

For younger readers, fairy tales we enjoyed as children, which incidentally did not cause us fear or irreparable harm, are now being abandoned for being too scary or politically incorrect. Here are a few examples:

  • Snow White - the wicked witch is too frightening, and references to the dwarves is politically incorrect;
  • Rapunzel is considered too dark;
  • Cinderella does not portray women appropriately because she is forced to do housework and sit on cinders;
  • Little Red Riding Hood walks alone through the woods and discovers her grandmother has been eaten by a wolf;
  • Hansel & Gretel are abandoned in a forest by their parents and forced to fend for themselves;
  • The Gingerbread Man because he is eaten by a fox.

There are plenty more stories about child abandonment in Harry Potter, The Cat in the Hat, The Secret Garden, James and the Giant Peach. For adults, the thought of a child left alone in the world is mortifying, but it seems less so for children, strangely. Stories of orphans and abandoned children are popular with younger readers possibly because as Romano suggests, "Fiction and fantasy let children indulge their primal desire to grow up—to be rid of rules and face a dangerous and exhilarating world alone—from the safety of their own bedrooms."

Before The Glass Table was published, I arranged a small focus group of four children ranging in age from seven to fourteen. The feedback was surprising. None of the four was disturbed or concerned by Faith turning into a mass of bubbles and floating away on the river. Three said that the scenes in Madam Aurora's parlor were favorites and especially the scene where Zeb was pulled into another dimension by evil spirits, although this is possibly because Zeb was the resident bully. I had thought that this storyline might be too frightening for children, but I was wrong.

I was also wrong about the witch's rules—I thought the rules might be too complicated and difficult for children to understand, but I certainly underestimated my readers. The children also liked how the child spirits found ways to leave messages for their family in the real world ie they liked 'watching' as other children found solutions to their problems. This is consistent with Romano's view that children enjoy stories where other children are untethered from authority, free and autonomous. 

All four children in the focus group were saddened and affected by the storyline in The Glass Table where Jack returns home as a child spirit to discover that life has returned to normal despite his disappearance, contrary to what happened when his younger brother Colby died. I was hoping this might touch a chord with children, and it did. Later in the scene, it is put into perspective for Jack and he realizes how much he is loved and missed.

Dave Eggers, author of the screenplay for Where the Wild Things Are, told NEWSWEEK "we underestimate children's interest and taste in things that have a more subtle palette and face the truth head-on."

What do you think? Are children capable of handling and understanding a lot more than we realize?

Regards
Leigh 

                 

 

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Comments (18)

Good point, CA Davidson. Had not thought of it that way, but that definitely has to have some bearing on things.

10 Dec 2009, Kat Walsh

Oh yes, we underestimate them all right. There's nothing you can sneak past kids these days. And agree with Kev - what used to be for an older age group seems more applicable to younger kids now. It's the shifting sands.

10 Dec 2009, Molly Hardwick

Excellent point, Charlie.

10 Dec 2009, Leigh K Cunningham, www.leighkcunningham.com

Interesting blog and discussion. Thought I'd add a penny to it. I think kids are more astute and aware now because they grow up being exposed to many different kinds of family units. It's no longer a mum/dad/kids situation, so kids today are learning from each other about these new units and that opens their eyes to all sorts of things ergo it takes a lot to frighten them.

10 Dec 2009, CA Davidson

I'm a middle-grade teacher. My mother was a middle-grade teacher, and so is my wife. We talk about this a lot. Teaching has had to change and adapt with the times and teachers have a lot more to deal with these days. I do think kids are more grown up now than we were so exposing them to certain themes and fears, like Max being in personal danger in Wild Things, doesn't seem to cause them any harm. Our generation was more protected and less knowing, I think.

9 Dec 2009, Andrew Kingston

Jen is right - kids are more insightful than we were. I wonder if it is the exposure to so much new technology - their minds are continually being challenged, plus access to endless information on the internet.

9 Dec 2009, Lucy Browne-Wilson

Great, thanks, Jen. Please let me know what Kai thinks, what she might like and not like. I do find the ideas and opinions of children fascinating, and obviously I like to understand what readers want and do not want in their stories.

9 Dec 2009, Leigh K Cunningham, www.leighkcunningham.com

I have to agree that children are very astute. I think they are definitely capable of understanding much more than we give them credit for. My eight year old (whose nickname happens to be Kai) just finished reading The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe for literature class and she has more insights than I remember about the characters and underlying themes. I will be picking up your books for her for Christmas as she saw The Glass Table and wants it.

9 Dec 2009, Jen

Kev, my nephew has read your book, Dream Raider, and he loved it, so I think this might be one of those books that merges age groups.

I found Dream Raider more frightening than my nephew - possibly because a soul stealer to an adult is a more frightening concept!

9 Dec 2009, Leigh K Cunningham, www.leighkcunningham.com

You're right, Heather - writing for kids and teens is so rewarding. I love their perspective on what they've read. It educates you, and they make me laugh.

9 Dec 2009, Leigh K Cunningham, www.leighkcunningham.com

I think children are definately more perceptive than most people give them credit for. It's part of why I write young adult. Kids and teens are amazing!

9 Dec 2009, Heather, http://heathermccorkle.blogspot.com/

Once again Leigh another well written and thought out blog. I also wrote for kids and my publisher told me that we should go for the 11 to 13 yr old market. Originally I wrote for 15 to 18 yr old's and was concerned that my story would be too dark for a younger audience. My editor said "they will eat it up with a spoon." She wasn't wrong, in fact it's the adults who read my book that complain about nightmares.

9 Dec 2009, Kev Webb, http://www.johnnymarsh.net

A critic for the Cleveland Press once said, "Boys and girls may have to shield their parents from this book," (Where the Wild Things Are) because "Parents are very easily scared."

8 Dec 2009, Leigh K Cunningham, www.leighkcunningham.com

My brother didn't allow my nephews to watch the Simpsons when they were young because Bart is apparently a bad influence, but when visiting their aunty (who shall remain nameless), they did on occasion watch it, and they have turned out to be respectful, fun and interesting young men, so no harm done :)

8 Dec 2009, Leigh K Cunningham, www.leighkcunningham.com

My kids were watching horror movies and banned TV shows long before I realized! Little blighters! Didn't seem to affect them. No signs of mental trauma as far as I know :)

8 Dec 2009, Allan Grayshore

My niece came to me once - she was about 8 I think, and asked me if I thought her parents were getting divorced. She was so concerned. I spoke with my sister and she had no idea the kids had any idea. They're smart and intuitive.

8 Dec 2009, Kat Walsh

Could not agree more, Katherine! You're fooling yourself if you think they don't pick up on every little thing, so when it comes to fiction and movies, a lot of it is probably nothing new.

8 Dec 2009, Louisa Carrington

I know we underestimate children! But I don't think it's anything new - I remember being 7 and completely aware of 'stuff' that was going on between my parents even though they tried to keep it 'private'. Kids are very astute.

8 Dec 2009, Katherine Charles

 
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